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That's just how it is. They are not only ring looking but well educated and highly attired women. Each year, November 11 has become an unofficial holiday known as China's Singles' Day when singles are encouraged to make an extra effort to find a partner. Bailey - this is just one blog about one very specific dating a black man experience, so I have not met other interracial configurations. I was acting so lame. Hell, I don´t know I´m a rookie in this game. I´m not trying to draw this out, but I want to be as descriptive as possible. All have the same name, the photo on the id-cards note to the girl I saw on cam. Let us know what you think about the list in the comment section below. Would the child be black or white?.

For example, one of my sisters cannot stand hearing spanish spoken. Its just made me feel pressured.

Oops - It generally happened in that portion of a person's life before the age of marriage, but as marriage became less permanent with the advent of , dating could happen at other times in peoples lives as well. My translator would always give me this crazy look when she asked.

One thing I will say though is there are a small number of white women who insist on living up to expectations, Read: stereotypes , that was pretty interesting. I was dating this girl one time and she was annoying the hell out of me one time when we were out for drinks with some friends. And it might cause you to sell out some people that you should normally be loyal too. The hair will be everywhere in your house, her house, car, clothes, and wallet. All jokes aside, this is actually very true and probably the best advice I can give any guy who is seriously considering dating white women. And also that makes you a quitter. Never be a quitter. For me, I hate discussing race all the time. Um… I know more freaky non-White women than I do White women. Can never say no. Lol it's no fun when you can't make racial jokes. Yeah, some of my 2520 friends are on the slow side. Then I whip out the race card. And now with the HAIR EVERYWHERE. I hate that with a fiery passion. It bothers me when I see the hair in the sink at my friends' dorms. Just a response to your madness. Lol smh Im a white man that is with a white woman that was with a black man one time and that is something I am totaly against. I asked her when we first met if she has ever been with a black man and she lied to me cause she knew I would have walked away and never given her a chance to be with me. So she finally tells me the truth after being with me for 3 monthes. I am still with her but it is hard for me knowing she has been with a black man,That to me is a slut and the lowest thing you can do. I am not predise I just think it should be black on black and white on white. I no longer go down on her just knowing there was a black dick in there before. That is where the term once you go black you never go back comes from. No normal white guy will ever want a white woman if shes stooped that low….. I am so ashamed at these responses. All of you are racist and lame and are the reasons why the divide amongst people are still present. What if a black man loves a white women? You are not a real doc and all these reponses are so ignorant. That you are mean and angry and always a victim. Shame on all of you! Laugh if you want to and act like you have unity all while you grow more fear in your beings. You act just like the white man. This post was one of the most ridiculous posts I have ever read! Just sad and appauling. This is one of the most racist post ive read so far…. If your weren't a racist you wouldn't have a problem talking about inter racial dating because honestly that's no big deal at all. I don't judge anyone by their skin color. I don't know were you got this information from but i think you should do some research, better yet go out and do your own research so you will know first hand instead of just pulling crap out your ass. My recent post I love all women asian , chinese, black, white, mexican, latina, blue purple, and green color does not matter and thats the way it should be. I would just like to respond to one comment i read. Please explain to me how a white woman dating a black is not the same as a black man dating a white woman that is the exact same thing just vise versa so who ever commented that must of been smoking some of that GANJA. My recent post The hair thing is weird because you can experience this with just about anyone. I'm mad a bunch of BW were talking about hair in the sink and shower, because that happens to them too. A chick with a weave will do that, pretty much any chick who brushes her hair gonna have some of it coming out. It's all about what she does with it. Latinas and Asian women have this problem too. I remember one time in college my roommate found a dred in his bed. Now that was really interesting. Not because a dred is married to the head, but because how in thee hell did it come out. This post was extremely ignorant and sounds butt-hurt. This post is stupid as fuck, Let people love who they want. And also that makes you a quitter. Never be a quitter. Jay, -2 million points for dating the girls in Phillips Exeter sweatshirts. I'll be back to say more in the morning — I need to finish this paper. Funny thing about this comment is that the quitter part is key. I would never just quit on BW, but I will admit that it hasn't really worked out for me. I've been in the club for a minute now. My first real girlfriend in life was a Latina, but everybody thought she was white. I guess because she would probably consider herself white as opposed to black in her country anyway. But we came together on that. Everyone thought she was white when she a Latina, and everyone thought I was some privileged upper class Black dude, when I was catcihng metro from the hood. Sort of the same thing. And also that makes you a quitter. Never be a quitter. Knowing when to cut your losses is a SMART way of life… Others just call it quitting… BTW I believe BW should date WM, and I encourage it… But the reasons you never see that in astronomical number is… — BW are generally not attracted to WM and vice versa — If WM go for BW, it is a particular kind of BW skinny, cultured, lacking the stereotypical BW BS — WM see BW someone they would F. UCK, not MARRY — BW can get away with more F. Adonis, I have to put the popcorn down. You made your points heard without going in and putting people on the defensive. Whether or not anyone agrees, this is a comment that could start a discussion, not necessarily an argument. Good luck with your search for your Princess Leia. Just remember, when the grass is always greener, it takes a lot of Shitake to keep it that way. UCK, not MARRY — BW can get away with more F. It all comes down to the fact that we make generalizations everyday our daily interactions. But we should really think before we make those generalizations and how they may affect us. I honestly love this. Now, forgive me for sounding entirely hypocritical, but I have dated and am currently in an amazing 2-year+ relationship with a white dude s. And a black woman with a white man is not the same as a black man with a white woman. ALL THINGS ARE NOT CREATED EQUAL, bitches. If a black man and a white woman end up battling for whatever, the white woman will probably always win because of who she is. If shit goes down, no black man would ever win against a white woman. JUST CAIN'T WIN, mandingo! I just genuinely have a wonderful relationship with an amazing white guy, and he worships the ground I walk on and will do anything for me. I do feel bad about joking about him being my slave, though…. I also don't feel bad about reminding him that he's a cracker too…. Cause you sound pretty damn dumb!!! Whether you realize it or not, crazy ass!!! Anytime you get into it with a white man or white woman, regardless of being a black man or black woman , people are going to be rooting for white person. Be nice if most black women won cases against white men but that shit's not going to happen because to do so would be to put a crack in the white power structure they labored hundreds of years to keep in tact. Your racial representation precedes your gender representation, because in their eyes, give blacks an inch and they'll take a mile, therefore, make it a general rule, not to give to negros, regardless of age, education, religion, occupation, etc. To be a black woman born in america, you sure can be a dumb ass when it comes to race relations. Being with my crazy man, for whatever reason, gives ME more freedom to be even BIGGER and BLACKER than I've ever been. I don't think I've ever pushed BLACKNESS which is synonymous with EXCELLENCE in a white person's face until him. But he appreciates, believes in, and recognizes it as well which is RARE for white people to be able to do. And finally, I am ridiculous and say nutty things. If I actually take issue with anything, I will let you know. But if I call you a crazy ass and swear at you, chances are I think you're really funny… and not only that, but I really don't get offended by anything. I used to have a problem with BM dating and marrying WM becuase of the stereotypes. Today not so much. How do you come back from that one? Jail, racial slurs, the eyes from close friends and family?? Its different from another race. It isn't the same when she calls Pookie n 'em or when you call Tyrone. Honestly WP do not understand what we go through on a daily basis. Okay I have to get back to my books! Thanks for the awesome post! Sambaguy, Yeah that would be odd wouldn't it be, it would be just like 99% of what people claim they read on the internet everyday about Black relationships. That's why I decided to do something different and talk about a topic that is not touched on frequently by Black men. I would enjoy a conversation about this, instead of comparing it to a conversation about Black women. The point was to be different. Can't understand how people get mad and claim that Black men are always riding Black women, but when there's a different topic offered…. I too was wondering about the BW + WM interracial dating faux pas…as WM are my latest fixation. Of course, I don't think the SBM writers can really help here, for lack of experience…but maybe a female guest blogger who has had experience can shed light. Funny thing, race comes up in conversation all the time, without the awkwardness. It's a learning experience for all. Other than that, the same issues come up as they do dating Black guys. Being attracted to WM is not an affront to my amazing BM…I just don't discriminate. And as long as I have United Nations as my colleagues and as long as I travel the world Brazil in 3 weeks…YAY!!! The most important thing is that we're connected mentally, emotionally and physically. Color is of no consequence. How about dating outside your race just cause you happen to meet a cool person who happens to look a little bit different? I have always been a fan of inclusion. Hell variety is the spice of life. I have dated American white women and a European white woman STONE KRAAZEEEE! Having sampled many a flavor of the rainbow, I can honestly say that black women are just my preference. I see the beauty in all women but there is just something about the nice chocolatey ones. But I have been wrong before. This could be another one of those times….. I don't know about that. I have a lot of white male friends who are strong, assertive and have no problem putting women in their place. Black or white women at that. There's something about a person who exudes privilege that puts them in an awkward position when dating. In fact when I think about it, most of the passive men that I know are Black. That's because they haven't let themselves get pass the power of P. And that's pretty tragic. I do know soft spoken white men, but I wouldn't let that fool me. There are times when someone might have said that about me or other men in my network. Just because we aren't assertive, doesn't mean we can be easily moved. It's a soft spoken, yet very aggressive move. Now you say something. I made plans Saturday during the day. I will be at the VSB thingy and I will find you…trust. Can I bring my cousin? Anyway, this post is hilarious and TRUE. I'm an expert on 2520 women so I can't deny the truths in these stereotypes except I wouldn't tell anyone not to date white, yellow, puerto rican or hatian women. Diff strokes for diff folks. I just can't get with men who date a woman just because she's white or other. Btw, I put baby powder in my hair sometimes. I get greasy scalp like white women and have to wash my hair every 3 days so I add some dry shampoo or powder to take out the grease. Oh and my hairs are everywhere! And I'm a cryer. Okay, that's all I got. Lemme know about the brunch thing. I'll show up in lingerie and a trench coat…and anyone who rejects me will catch a court case. Oh and I wanna add that I strongly cosign not dating an enabler. I'm an alpha but ironically I like my men strong, if not stronger. If a guy lets me walk all over him, I will and find him unattractive in 5 mins flat. I want my partner to be someone who challenges me…preferrably while tugging on my hair. Weak backbone aint s. I don't know what the two of ya'll just said but…. You're saying you don't care if we go and don't care if we don't go? Anywho, of course I'd love to go. I'm going to talk to my cousin and see if we can make it. I originally made plans with her and don't want to flake. I know you said you don't care but I'm explaining myself any way cause I care. As is the psychosexual mandigo element in dating WW. I'm mean if there is this underlying element Is it better to acknowledge it or just enjoy it. Now for me that's an interesting topic because clearly BW also get a chexual charge from that raw strength that brothers bring to the bedroom play, but where the interracial dynamic comes into play, is this erotic element something we should acknowledge or ignore. WW telling a bro that she's dating that she's got a rape fantasy that she would like to play out. I'm not saying that's happened, I'm just giving an example of where and how that ish can get complicated. I have learnt mOre about hair treatment in one post than I ever wish to know! Race aside, this works well for me. Also, I can see myself agreeing to go home and wait up for a man after he blacks out on me. But, I can't lie I'd probably trash the apartment or do some crazy shit. Cuz I'm crazy as hell. Adonis, it's easy to be masculine, slap her around wear you pants lOw and shout wear my dinner biatch every now and then. A real man's got a code, values and character because if you don't stand for something in the world, you'll fall for anything. Stop your fixation on the cOntent of masculinity , just do you. Eventually you'll meet someone who likes what you stand for. Some twenty years of experienced bullshiz condensed into two cent worth of advice. You americans are messed up! I am a canadian…. Culturally, there are many differences even between white people depending on what their background is ex. It is not always a color thing! Inter racial and inter cultural dating can be very difficult however those differences are what makes life interesting. I understand that you have had difficult past and suffer a lot of hate but times has changed and you have should learned feeling equal. Yes but I'm sure you have class or some other type of discrimination in your country. I'm a BW and my boyfriend is white and English. He claims that race isn't that big of a deal in his country and he's right but then shares experiences of being bullied and teased as a child for being the son of a farmer. There are still major class issues in the UK and what people don't realize is that racism in the US is a form of classism. When someone acts racist against me it's normally because they're assuming that because I'm black I'm of a lower class. From that they assume that either I'm more likely to be a criminal or uneducated. Also, in the UK they don't have racism per say, but there are people that are anti-immigrant and as a result treat people of a certain ethnic background because they assume they're either in the country illegally, etc. Kitts and she herself is considered English. The way I see it, all discrimination and prejudice is bad, one type isn't better or worse than the other and we should all work together to end it. I found this blog thanks to one of my friends. I have to disagree with the author—white women should be on a brother's team just like sisters, latinas and asian women. As long as you're the man and in control, go for it but: BE A MAN AND BE IN CONTROL. I've got three white girls on my team—in addition to the two sisters and the one latina. One is a second grade teacher and freaky as hell, but to the outside world she looks like the traditional soccer mom with a mini-van. The other two aren't as freaky but they will take a day off from work just to spend the day in bed with me. The sisters aren't freaky—they're more the wifey types and I can see myself getting serious with one of them. But one is stuck on money and status and thinks that I need to go back to school despite the fact that I make twice as much as she does and the other one has too many angry friends and family members in her business. The latina is about to get cut from the team and placed on waivers if I catch her grinning in the face of another man again. Probably but I'm a grown man who's single and I don't see why I shouldn't experience as many beautiful women as possible while I'm not married. Once I'm married I'm quite capable of being a one woman man—cause I've done before when I was engaged. I called the wedding off when her father insisted that I sign a pre-nup and she thought it was a good idea. For the record, my ex-fiancee was a sister and from a well to do family but he wasn't stacking paper like Bill Gates. He owned a couple of chicken joints and ain't nobody I know ever called that negro the next Colonel Sanders. She wanted to please her daddy more than she wanted to be my wife so I wasn't about to have that dude running my life. I'm really looking forward to finding that one special lady but in the meantime, I'm keeping all my options open and I suggest that all brothers do the same. Lol, this post was hilarious. Unfortunately I'm gonna have to agree on the hair issue, though I don't think that's exclusive to WW. Never heard that before, but hey whatever works I guess. However, I question your choice of WW to pursue, cause not all of us are passive no-will-of-our-own, crying-in-the-streets-types. I think you're right on the money when it comes to dating outside your race in order to realize the fallacy of blaming problems on race rather than gender. My recent post My daughter was dating a black guy, I told her that she was going to get the ugly end of the stick. She worked and paid all the bills. All he was interested in was getting laid by a white girl. He robbed a grocery store, came home, then he slapped her around and hit her a few times with a baseball bat, breaking her arm. Her screams got the attention of the neighbor and he called the police. By the time the police came, he stole her car and was gone, never to be seen again till he was arrested in Chicago for doing the same thing. Most of black guys will use a white girl and leave her after she gets pregnant. Would the child be black or white? Who would take care of it? He moved into her apartment and was gone in less than three weeks. LET ME SAY WOW!!! THIS IS HILARIOUS… PERSONALLY I'M A MUT BUT WHEN YOU SEE ME YOU'LL THINK I'M LATINA OR SOME SORT OR MEDITERRANEAN.. BUT I AM WHITE, WITH A HINT OF ASIAN.. BUT LET ME SAY THE MAN OF MY LIFE IS BLACK!!! AND THIS POST IS COMPLETELY RIDICULOUS… I GUESS WHATEVER WHITE PERSON THEY WERE WITH WAS A COMPLETE AIRHEAD, SHE OBVIOUSLY WAS IF SHE WAS BLONDE… BUT IF THOSE ARE REASONS NOT TO DATE A WHITE WOMAN YOU NEED TO JUST STICK TO YOUR OPINIONS AND KEEP THEM TO YOURSELF.. NO MAN WILL EVER NO WHAT TYPE OR WOMAN HE IS INTO, WHITE, BLACK, LATINA, ASIAN WHATEVER UNLESS HE JUST EXPLORES.. YOU CAN DISCOVER SO MUCH IN ANY PERSON … SO SKY IS THE LIMIT AND REALIZE IT! Im a persian american, and for SOME ODD reason black women find me THE MOST exotic and charming. Therefore, i have had many relations with black women and white women also , and i can honestly say that you are fucking retarded if you think what you wrote it ACTUALLY true…. IF ANYTHING i found everything you said to be more true about the black women i have dated….. Don't make me put you to shame by typing them all out…. Persian Men are not really cultural in America, Black Women have a sense of culture, Persian Men actually match better with White Women especially with their German Ties. I have tried a couple white women and they are definitely not the best head-giversr media makes you think this.. Nothing sexier than black on black… Bets believe that. And all that hair was irritating As hell… thirsty ass white women… Lol. Some I honestly found this to be horribly offensive in a lot of ways. So thanks for that. You just stereotyped people living in the South as racists. Are talking about the white racists in the South or are talking about the black racists in the South. Don't forget there's plenty of Latinos and Asians that live in the South that are also racists……There's racist up North and there's racist on the West coast……You complain about the post being racial but you just racially stereotyped Southerners. White girls clean white girls wash their hair and hopefully themselves everyday. First couple of times that I dated a black girl, I was totally shocked after the first couple of days she didn't wash her hair. Biggest differences I've seen between black and white girls in-relation to previous things you mentioned is the attitude and the volume. Yeah I know you're here. Everybody now knows you're here. I know, I'm a grown man. Takes a little longer to teach that. We shouldn't stereotype, granted there are general similarities and differences but yes, everyone is different. A Happy PC Ending, AND I didn't even make a 'putting the cream in the coffee' reference in there once. Except for just now. A lot of you people on here are sad racists. I do not know where you come from but I come from NYC so I have grown up with every race around me. I get along with all races, black, white, Spanish, Asian and everything in between. Whoever you are happy with should be the one you want to be with no matter what race that person is or how that person looks to the rest of the world. People need to mind their own business and focus on their own relationships maybe that is why people in this world are so miserable…. This article is stupid, as hell, and ignorant, and all of you who are co signing on this is just as stupid, white women are people just like anyone else, and everybody is different. Some white women are strong some are weak, the same goes for black women. I have dated just as many white women as I have black women. Some of the white women I dated were stronger women than some of the black women I dated, and vice versa. People are individual and you can't just lump them all into one package. It is just as ignorant for a black person to be racist as it is for a white person. Infact I live by a community center and I can hear them talking from the 3rd floor of my apartment accross the street. I would love to know how people would be responding if this were an article written by a white man about black women. The problem with people today is they're too quick to make generalizations and then get insulted when they're stereotyped based in these generalizations. People are people, if you're not learning from your relationship you shouldn't be in it. Really this is upsetting. I cant believe someone would write something like this. I am in no way shape or form racist, but to. Or any man or woman saying I cant date someone with extensions bc they shed as well. Or even saying u can not date a black woman bc they do their hair too much or what ever. To me it shouldnt matter who u date as long as u are happy with that person. It has nothing to do with any of that if ur happy then. This is so stupid. The hair thing actually got a whole paragraph. It's funny because I remember a guy I dated saying my hair got everywhere and people were always pulling long brown hairs off his sweaters, but I don't think he considers that a reason not to date me. I really think it's something he just might be able to deal with. I just think it's funny you actually took a whole paragraph discussing that, I hope you were joking. If it's really that important to you, maybe you should just stick to what you are comfortable with if it bothers you that much. I'm sure a lot of white girls wouldn't really want to date you anyway with such a biased attitude, cause bias is bias no matter what race you are, you are still closed-minded. I never really felt comfortable dating a white woman, but what you said made so much sense skin color is so irealvant but you have to admit in our society it does play a small role could you really blame a jewish guy for not wanting to date a german girl looking at their past and blacks being killed for talking to white girls isnt even that old plus some Latina and white women parents don't want or feel comartable with their daughters dating BM but with that being sad I think I should pick a woman who will love me for me and be there for and try to let the past be the past.